What I am reflecting? I was feeling a bit sick this week. Last week, I had a sore throat. I told my wife, “I’ll just take whatever medicine the doctor gives.” It was because that week was full of back-to-back… Read More »Be Kind to Yourself
What I am reflecting? As I grew up, my upbringing was mostly centered around certain values—values such as respect, discipline, hard work, and being smart. Naturally, I now pass down these same values to my children. But it doesn’t stop… Read More »Raising Kids with Values
What I am reflecting? I recently stepped onto the stage and gave a talk. Looking back, I realize there are many things that have changed. I felt more confident.I felt more composed.I felt grateful for the opportunity to share my… Read More »The One Mindset Shift
What I am reflecting? Parenting became one of the topics that truly interested me after I had my first child. I’ve always strived for perfection—to become the ideal good dad. What does that mean? It evolved as I became a… Read More »A Message Every Dad Needs to Hear
What I am reflecting? I’m a good daddy. I shared that sometimes I feel like I have imposter syndrome. I’ve doubted myself, wondering, “Am I good enough to be a good dad?” I’m really grateful that some of you reached… Read More »From Doubt to Confidence
What I am reflecting? Lately, I’ve become aware of my urge to give advice and to “criticize” the right way to do certain things. For example, when my son behaves a certain way, I tend to have an opinion on… Read More »Encourage over Advice
What I am reflecting? What would this look like if it were fun? This is one important question mentioned by Ali Abdaal in his book Feel Good Productivity. This week, I was reminded of the word “fun.” Fun has always been… Read More »Live a Fun Life
What I am reflecting? I’ve been thinking about the power of knowing people — and even more, the power of people getting to know me. When I was younger, I used to hear this line from MLM talks or from… Read More »Why People Really Help You
What I am reflecting? This week, I’m back to listening to podcasts after getting bored with a heavy audiobook. I tuned in to my favourite podcaster, Tim Ferriss—specifically his interview with Charlie Houpert: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gxkjMnSCg3k The episode discusses the success of The 4-Hour… Read More »Stop Begging People to Buy
What I am reflecting? Work is so much more FUN when you’re collaborating with people you enjoy. As you may know, I’m a software engineer—a passionate learner and teacher. I love creating equal learning opportunities for others, whether in my… Read More »This Makes Work FUN