What I am reflecting? Learning over Thinking “If people don’t ask the right questions, their brain doesn’t learn.” This is a statement by Richard Bandler, one of the founders of NLP. He also mentioned, “It doesn’t matter to me why… Read More »Learn as You Grow
What I am reflecting? Looking at the smile of my dad. My dad walked into my study room. He told me he is getting better and better. His health is improving. I can clearly see his face looks more vibrant.… Read More »The Smile of My Dad
What I am reflecting? I read a book by Richard Bandler, “Guide to Trance-Formation.” Just a few covers he mentioned that humans don’t behave because of survival; instead, human behavior is the way it is because of familiarity. Yes. You’re… Read More »The Familiar Zone
What I am reflecting? I was feeling a bit sick this week. Last week, I had a sore throat. I told my wife, “I’ll just take whatever medicine the doctor gives.” It was because that week was full of back-to-back… Read More »Be Kind to Yourself
What I am reflecting? As I grew up, my upbringing was mostly centered around certain values—values such as respect, discipline, hard work, and being smart. Naturally, I now pass down these same values to my children. But it doesn’t stop… Read More »Raising Kids with Values
What I am reflecting? I recently stepped onto the stage and gave a talk. Looking back, I realize there are many things that have changed. I felt more confident.I felt more composed.I felt grateful for the opportunity to share my… Read More »The One Mindset Shift
What I am reflecting? Parenting became one of the topics that truly interested me after I had my first child. I’ve always strived for perfection—to become the ideal good dad. What does that mean? It evolved as I became a… Read More »A Message Every Dad Needs to Hear
What I am reflecting? I’m a good daddy. I shared that sometimes I feel like I have imposter syndrome. I’ve doubted myself, wondering, “Am I good enough to be a good dad?” I’m really grateful that some of you reached… Read More »From Doubt to Confidence
What I am reflecting? Lately, I’ve become aware of my urge to give advice and to “criticize” the right way to do certain things. For example, when my son behaves a certain way, I tend to have an opinion on… Read More »Encourage over Advice
What I am reflecting? What would this look like if it were fun? This is one important question mentioned by Ali Abdaal in his book Feel Good Productivity. This week, I was reminded of the word “fun.” Fun has always been… Read More »Live a Fun Life